Roots and Wings

The greatest gift our parents gave us were roots and wings. This was one of the 'perks' that life in the yesteryear's had to offer. 

Life was easier, more 'local' and did not involve such extensive travelling/shifting. As adults we all know where our roots lie, where we come from. We have a 'mother base camp' so to speak. No matter which part of the world we currently live in, we always know that we have a place called 'home'. It brings back fond memories and smiles.

Our parents also gave us wings to fly. There were no boundaries set upon us as children or even as adults. We were (within reasonable restrain) free to do what we want. Our parents did whatever in their means to support our dreams, desires and flight, even if it meant sacrifices on their part. A Sparrow, an Eagle or a Swift, it was our choice of whom we wanted to be. They simply gave us wings and let us decide how high we want to soar. 

As we had roots, no matter how high we flew, we always knew that there was a 'safe' place for us to return, in case we drifted to turbulent weather. The safety of the strong roots enabled us to fly higher and higher.

Have we given roots and wings to our children? In this mad helter skelter world, we are so busy with our own lives that we forget these simple things. These things ultimately matter in life. We are shifting from job to job and have no permanent place to live. Our children just tag along with us, often confused as to their roots. When they grow up, what will they imagine their childhood to be? A flurry of different homes, friends and places? 

We are also so busy with our own lives, that we do not teach them to fly. We just presume that we have given them wings, now its up to them to fly. Who will teach them to unfold their wings? Who will give them the safety and security of a 'mother base camp'? Do we spend enough time with them to understand them? Do we listen to what our children want out of their lives? If you have given them wings, support them in their ability to fly, no matter how many times they falter. Let them decide how high they can fly. Do not say 'no' or 'impossible' to them. Give them favourable winds and a 'mother base camp'. 

Roots and wings. Its the greatest gift you can give to your children. One that they will value when they are all grown up and good citizens of planet earth.

Note: I am sure some of you will disagree on the point that our parents gave us roots and wings. Some of us have not been so fortunate to get the support of our parents. Childhood abuse and neglect is common worldwide. Yet children from such families, still make magic happen. Don't blame your parents. Maybe that's the way they were brought up by their parents? I sincerely feel they mean you no harm and wish you well. Their way of reflecting it might be different. It may be wrong but maybe that's the way they are. Maybe you were sent in their lives, to sort them out? To show them what life is? Its your life, make it what you want it to be.